My girlfriend was d and contracted ?

My girlfriend lives in an off-campus apartment at her college with 2 other females and was d by a male that one of them had over about a month and a half ago. She contracted genital from the . I love her dearly and I can not imagine what she is going through. She is on Zovirax and she's gone through her first outbreak which was hard for her. I want to be with her. I have unconditional love for her and would never leave her because she has . My question is, what can I say to make her realize this? She refuses to have with me. She's scared I'm going to contract it, but I have ured her I will use a condom. We have even spoke to the police and 3 doctors and they all said my chances are extremely low. I realize she probably won't want to have for awhile...due to the and the std...but I just don't know what to say to her; how to make her feel better. I need some advice! Thanks.