Is there a special tool to get the "Outer Right Tie Rod End" off? It wont seem to come loose?

I tried a 22 mm wrench and vice grips to unscrew the nut at the end but the inner tie rod keeps moving and I feel like I'm going to bend the joint at the end of the inner tie rod because It's moving all over when I try to get a grip. PLEASE HELP!! this tie rod is so annoying. I have a 1997 Dodge Stratus es 6 cyl.